カナダ掲示板 (フリー) - No.37167

宣伝乚

If someone says they won't date a specific race of people just because they're following the media or the norm. They're already an idiot to stay away from in my book.

I've seen very well fitted interracial couples, but those couples don't even see the race differences themselves, they just love each other and match. If one of the biggest things in a relationship is skin colour or heritage, then obviously the relationship isn't a very good one, haha.

Anyhow, those women who say those type of things, I just stay away from.

I'm not mixed but girls around me say they won't date me because I'm short and ugly...

The problem is not your mom or dad - do you know why no one wants to date you? Imagine a guy in his parents' basement posting a bunch of racist/sexist videos on Youtube - claiming he's not popular because their parents are interracial.
Do you think girls would find that sexy?

No matter how much you hate it, you can't change the fact that you are half Asian, embrace it and do something more productive.

> "If someone says they won't date a specific race of people just because they're following the media or the norm. They're already an idiot to stay away from in my book."

No, we do not follow the media. we hapa SHARE our real experiences on YouTube, Reddit, on other social media and quite frankly, there are more of us who says the same things and this is just not me or my family background that's having the issues here, but many many hapas who were raised in mostly WM/AF couplings do..

go here: https://www.reddit.com/r/hapas/ and get yourself reeducated pertain to your hapa son's or daughter's real issues, if you ever have one

This is what happened to my own life as well you know, raised up in the unbalanced, racist family of predominantly conservative white father, and status obsessed, submissive, Japanese mother who was originally here in Canada for work visa....

I bet even if the world is going to an end, their white obsession will continue.
why don't you just admit that the WM/AF relationship is mostly based on racism and status climbing obsession and not out of genuine real love.
I do no condone interracial relationship but WM/AF relationship seem to produce more broken family and divorce rates are high, like in the case of my own family.

This is our voice, the hapa's voice and it really does not matter if YOU or other haters and morons stems us from disseminating the truth, Other hapas needs to be heard and I am sure it will save lives.

RIP: Eliot Rogers, Matthew De Grood and so many other hapas.

>The problem is not your mom or dad - do you know why no one wants to date you? Imagine a guy in his parents' basement posting a bunch of racist/sexist videos on Youtube - claiming he's not popular because their parents are interracial.

Ok, you keep assuming I was talking about my own personal love relationship with my Chinese wife here.. go on, nobody is complaining.

Are you ready to hear what I am here to say ?
Good, now go back and read my post once again and check out https://www.reddit.com/r/hapas/. Then, come back and talk to us.

Say, even if what you're saying is true - that AW/WM couples make bad families (which is total bullshit), do you seriously think they care about your opinion and be like "Oh yeah, this kid is right, we should date our own race!" lol

This type of guy exists in every race - "I'm (unemployed/uneducated/unpopular/unattractive/ugly/self-hating/poor because I'm '(put any race or mix here)')".

Yeah, keep blaming on your race for whatever misery you have in your life. Nobody gives a shit. Stop polluting the internet with your Nazi KKK bullcrap.

>7 , 8

Go on, keep saying what YOU think is real, keep that bandwagon sentiment however you see fit. Honestly, I don't care what YOU have to say, because this is the issues that largely concerns us the hapas community and the family. I'm married to a Chinese wife with 2 year old son and I will make sure that I will raise him to be a full Asian so that when he grows up, he will not have to face such a severe identify problem so many hapa kids face nowadays. I'm pretty sure my other hapa friends will agree with me here.

Once, again I will help you all to remind that I'm not the only hapa who says this, but many hapas do expresses deep concern with the WM/AF relationship.
Please go to https://www.reddit.com/r/hapas/ where it is one of the largest hapas online community discussing about our real experiences being half-Asian half-white, the issues and obstacles we face on a day to day basis.

Again, #7,#8 you have the right to your own opinion and tell me that I'm a
"(unemployed/uneducated/unpopular/unattractive/ugly/self-hating/poor because I'm '(put any race or mix here)')". Say whatever you want, whatever makes you happy, but seriously I feel sorry for your hapa son or daugther if you ever have one...

Here's the kicker...YOU will not understand what we are going through, if you were never raised in an interracial family or have a hapa son/daughter.
No amount of your self-loathing, bashing, verbal abuse or whatever will Never ever going to stem us hapas from disseminating the truth about raising up in a WM/AF family

Here's more info for the interracial couples who are about to have a kid or already have one. I highly encourage you to openly discuss about race and identify issues with your hapa son or daughter to ensure their voices are being heard.

long-term solution to common hapa issues?:
https://www.reddit.com/r/hapas/comments/4ujj6z/longterm_solution_to_common_hapa_issues/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CpQFoxcd2jo

>I will raise him to be a full Asian

What does that even mean to raise someone "full Asian"?
I don't know what your cultural background is, let's say you're half Japanese - you should know that the Japanese culture is VERY different from your wife's Chinese culture. He will face inevitable cultural identity crisis no matter what. Also, your son will never be culturally 100% Asian if he's raised in Canada. He will be a total foreigner if he visits China, Japan, or whatever other Asian countries. Instead of forcing him some skewed cultural identity, you should focus on embracing his multicultural-Canadian identity.

That being said, I don't think you really have a child - I don't think anybody this childish is capable of doing this. If you really do have a child, I feel really, really sorry for the kid - you need to seek a psychological help for your child's sake.